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Want to help your partners and friends heal sexual trauma, create amazing relationships, and explore kink/BDSM ethically without the ick of 50 Shades? Why not get paid while you do it?!

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Kelly Noel Zeva Affiliate Program Details

Up to 40% Payout

Receive 40% commission on self-paced courses and digital products, and 10-20% for 1-on-1 and group programs.

90-Day Cookie Length

Our cookie lasts 90 days and is based on the last click a lead makes. That means more affiliate sales for you!

Special Rewards

Get to the top of leaderboard to get special gifts. Our top affiliates can earn merch and other sweet rewards… not just cash.

What Would I Be Promoting?

Better BDSM Limit List™

Our flagship/signature digital product. This one-of-a-kind limit list is designed with beginners and trauma survivors in mind.

Retail Price: $27 | You Receive: $10.80

The Safer Scene Worksheets™

A fillable PDF with questions to ask before, during, and after scene negotiation.

Retail Price: $17 | Add-on: $9 | You Receive: $3.60-$6.80

The Sexual Healing Challenge

This self-paced program was originally designed as a 5-day challenge. Each masterclass includes a POWERFUL energy healing process, and the program also includes a workbook. This has consistently gotten rave reviews.

Retail Price: $97 | You Receive: $38.80

21-Day Chakra Cleanse for Sexual Empowerment

A 3-week self-paced course with daily meditations and journaling prompts, and weekly energy healing processes. A great follow-up to the Sexual Healing Challenge.

Retail: $47 | You Receive: $18.80

Conscious Kink Bootcamp

My signature program, which will be overhauled and expanded sometime this year. This program introduces people to kink/BDSM, supports them with getting started in their community, and combining spirituality and erotic/sensual play.

Retail Price: $197 | You Receive: $78.80

Private Coaching

My private coaching rates are currently $350 for a single 90-minute session or $600 per month (biweekly sessions) for 6 months. I offer a 40% one-time discount for a single session and a 10% payout for the first session and first six-month contract, if applicable.

Retail Price: $210-$3600 | You Receive: $21-$360

Excited to get started? Apply to become an affiliate today!

Frequently Asked Questions

What are the requirements to be an affiliate?

To participate in the Kelly Noel Zeva Affiliate Program, you must agree to the Affiliate Terms & Conditions upon acceptance. Since I do payouts manually (at least for the time being), you do NOT need to have a business PayPal, though that is preferred. I do also prefer that my affiliates are existing or former students, clients, or colleagues who have witnessed or experienced my teaching style first-hand. (It will also make you feel more comfortable talking about the work that I do!) At a bare minimum, you should be familiar with my approach to energy healing, sexuality, and/or kink/BDSM.

If you’re new to my work but would still like to be an affiliate, I recommend listening to this podcast episode where I break down some of the edgier (and cooler!) aspects of what I do as a coach, educator, and creator.

What can I promote?

As an affiliate, you can promote my digital products, courses, group coach programs, private coaching sessions, and even my free resources! Ultimately, what you decide to promote is up to you.

What is the affiliate commission, and when are payouts made?

Affiliates earn 40% on digital products and self-paced courses. I provide a 10-20% commission for anything that involves any of my personal time, including my forthcoming membership program, my group coaching/certification programs, and a client’s first 1-on-1 private coaching session or program. This policy is subject to change at any time.

Payouts are made by the 10th of the month for sales made the previous month. This allows us time to send and process checks with our bank, if necessary. There is a $10 minimum for payouts.

Do you provide promotional materials?

Yes! I’m currently in the process of creating an Affiliate Promo Pack that contains graphics, program descriptions, and swipe copy. If you have specific, additional resources in mind that would help you make more sales, drop me a line and let me know!

What platform/software do you use for the affiliate program?

The affiliate portal is hosted in ThriveCart. You do NOT need to have a paid ThriveCart account to be an affiliate. It’s super easy to sign up, and since I currently do any payouts manually, you do not even need to have a PayPal Business account if you are based in the United States. (International affiliates MUST have a PayPal Business account.) Either way, I do need to have your mailing address and legal name on file so that I can ensure you receive payment promptly.

Can I use my own affiliate link to make a purchase?

No, any self-referrals or purchases made through your own affiliate link will not be paid a commission.

The purpose of an affiliate program is to help more people and share the wealth with our existing students and clients, not to cheat the system. If you attempt any questionable behavior using your affiliate link, we will issue a written warning upon the first instance. Any subsequent attempts to “hack the system” will result in your affiliate account being terminated.

I have another question. How can I get in touch?

If you have any questions not already answered here, you can contact me at or send me a DM on Instagram.