Sex Coaching

Hi, there! I’m Kelly Noel Zeva, and I’ve been a coach since 2018 when they first became certified as a health coach through Dr. Sears’ Wellness Institute. In late 2019, I combined my experience with energy healing (Reiki, past life regression) with coaching and holistic sex education to become the guide you wished you had 5 years ago.

What Sex Coaches Do

As many medical doctors, psychotherapists, and sex therapists become more removed from the daily challenges their patients face, sex coaches have become increasingly popular. Sex coaches are an alternative to sex therapists in Madison, WI. As your personal coach, I provide a valuable weekly, biweekly, or monthly touchpoint for you. Your sessions may look different each time. One time we might talk about kink and BDSM, the next we might do a past life regression to heal past-life sexual trauma. 

My goal is always to empower you to experience more pleasure and create healthier, more joyful relationships.

Who I Work With

I know there’s so many people in this world who could use the services that I provide. That’s why I’ve created on-demand courses and group coaching programs in addition to offering private sex coaching. Because this is an alternative (or supplement) to sex therapy, my private coaching is best for individuals, couples, and moresomes who have:

  • Already tried #AllTheThings to heal their sexual trauma and want something that works… FAST
  • Shame and judgement about exploring their “most taboo” desires and want a guide who’s rarely fazed by anything
  • Explored and experienced various holistic modalities–like Reiki and past life regressions–and want to receive powerful, multidimensional healing
  • Committed to healing their sexual trauma so they feel freer and have more FUN

Sex Coaching Approach

During holistic sex coaching sessions, I take a collaborative approach. As the client, you are the driver of the process and you set whatever goals you want to accomplish. Every six months, we’ll start with a goal-setting session so that I can best support you make the changes in your life that you want. Unlike most sex therapists in Madison, WI, we offer a supportive space and psychology-based coaching. This approach helps you uncover what motivates you, and sets yourself up for success throughout change process.

I’m formally trained in Motivational Interviewing (MI), appreciative coaching, and Reiki. In your sessions, I bring out whichever tools and approaches are most supportive so that you experience more pleasure and create healthier, more joyful relationships. Let’s work together to heal your sexual trauma and create the sex & love life of your dreams!